Talked to BIL and M & FIL last night. They all support me and want W to stop what she's doing and save the M. I told them all, and they agreed, that the only thing that will maybe wake her up is realizing she has nowhere to go and no money. I asked that they not enable her if she decides to leave. They told me not to leave the house or the kids and if she decides to leave, she will not be welcome in any of their homes. She will have to make it on her own.
I understand this may change at any given moment. She is their daughter and sister. It did make me feel a little better to know I wasn't fighting against them. She does have two sisters, one who she talks to often that I wonder if she is saying, yes, get rid of him, go, you deserve better. BIL assures me that is not the case. We'll see.
