I said this in another thread and will say it here. My W has the mentality of a 16 yo when it comes to relationships
You hear that description alot with WASs.
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She is not your typical WAW
You hear that a lot from LBSs.
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I need things to say to her, that will question her logic and cause her to reconsider.
Arguing and reason don't usually work.
It didn't work for me, and I tried arguing. It was like arguing with a brick wall.
I am seperated now. Maybe your story is different?
Many of us have dealt with WAS's that have gone through a similar transformation. The beautiful thing is the mindset is usually not sustainable, and its not a position they can hold for ever in the circles they roam. I understand the brick wall bit. What I am more interested is in how this occurs, whether through their social group support or interactions, etc that allow it to ohappen over time.
How this knowledge can be exploited in a better way to burst the affair or help our spouse to come to their senses.
