Long time, no see. It looks as though you are doing well. I stumbled upon this information yesterday and thought it might be of interest to you. I remembered reading, in the past, that you are filing a complaint against your MC and thought this info might be helpful:
--"National Registry of Marriage Friendly Therapists" (www.marriagefriendlytherapists.com/) --- wish I'd found this 2 years ago when XH left it to me to find a marriage therapist.
There is a bill in my state legislature to slow down the D process headed by Dr. William Doherty, the author of the above articles (www.mnfamilylawblog.com/articles/contested-divorce/). In Minnesota currently you can get divorced in 1 week. Ridiculous. Of course the Family Law lobby is not supporting it. (How do you make a "cross-eyed" emoticon? I'd like one to go here!)