Hey P. You're right-- he still has work to do. I was just thinking this morning that it was really interesting that he basically asked about my kids at school, but he didn't ask anything about her. He could have asked did she move a lot, or whatever, really. So I think it shows that he's not "there" yet.

Yes, I would like him to contact me. I will sit back, but I think the longest I can is two weeks! I'm coming up to 37 weeks on Friday, so I feel a bit of urgency.

But I totally agree that it's best if he approaches me. I also feel like it's rather awful to not discuss the name before she's born. I'd like for him to feel some ownership. But, I may not get that.