This morning I am wondering what he's doing, thinking about the OW situation
You are not going to have a chance to save your M until you save YOU
and this ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ is a waste of energy, time and is painful. So....
DON'T do it!
I know this is hard. Let me tell what I had to do to stop this. I had to stop talking to me W. Stopped looking at everything and anything that gave me info about her. No snooping.
I wore a rubber band on my wrist and when I thought about her I would snap myself on the wrist.
Do whatever you have to do to get past this point and detach completely. When you do this you won't be:
Originally Posted By: rlay
... still panicking thinking I'm not doing enough to save my marriage.
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
