Sorry did not have a lot of time to write last night and even less right now. Just had to get something out. I have to say Lotus your response struck me as very harsh. Perhaps you were trying to be helpful but it really hurt.

Just to be clear my anger and outbursts have certainly contributed heavily to my current circumstances BUT I can not and will not take all responsibility. In a way - doing so is pretty disrespectful of my partner don't you think?

We can all present ourselves as victims on this board but I have chosen to be brutally honest because I think that's the only way to begin the process of real change. Now if the response to that is attack if I ever dare complain or feel upset about my circumstances - it certainly doesn't make me think I'm in a very compassionate envt. on these boards.

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