We had a turbulent past, basically my WAS was the OW in my life at one time. Five years ago I committed to her. And only her. Over those five years she has wanted to leave the relationship at least 10 times. She ran back to her ex-fiance at least two times and was in contact with him for at least two of the years we were together. So in January she tells me out of the blue she's done. Been her before I think. She swears up and down she isn't cheating, just had enough. Typical WAS script(little did i know). Within two months I'm getting texts and e-mails from her trying to act all friendly. I responded to a few(I didn't know anything about DB yet). We met for coffee, had a nice time. She asks if she can come over the next night to watch the fights. Given our past, i ask "what have you been doing the past two months?" She's hesitant to tell me. Says she was seeing a few people. Slept with one. I was pissed. Refused to talk to her anymore. She shows up at my house several times, finally i cave. We're intimate. Then we argue. She disappears again for a weekend. Won't answer my calls. That monday rolls around and she texts, won't say where she's been. Tell her not to contact me anymore.
Two weeks pass and she's texting again. I ignore her. One week after that she's at it again. I ask her to stop. One week later she's texting again. I ignore her. She shows up at my local grocery store, at my normal shopping time. She tries to approach me and make small talk, I am polite but abrupt and walk away. Next week she's organizing a party for her brother(my best friend) and invites all my friends. Everyone sees this as a ploy to gain intel. So finally last week she texts me several days in a row, and is actually honest. Says how much she misses me and being together. Says more stuff. I didn't bite. Told her I hated texting, that grown ups don't talk via text.
So this week I send her a text in regards to something she had asked me about. That was 3 days ago. No response. She's gone again. Not 4 days after sending me all this sappy crap. I'm so done with her garbage.
She claimed the she was internet dating but I'd bet every cent I have that she ran back to the ex.
