well lordy me, it happened again, son went for tea, dad dropped him off, dad came down the garden path with a printer/scanner and handed it to son at the front door, stood chatting to son like some 10 foot behind where I was sitting, I swear it sounded like he was right behind me. the printer wasnt too heavy or awkward for son to carry himself so no need for ex to do this, as I have said he normally sits in the car and son has to go back and forth with things, getting scary now as to what the motive is in all this, lol x