Need a Plan for My Marriage

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Wow is all I got to say. Today out pretty good. I was very busy from the time I woke up until the time I went to sleep. I started mad and angry to sad and emotional to happy and glad.

I found out a lot of information that was help for me going ahead in this divorce with my W. I am a little more optimistic and positive. I need to be to keep my kids. It has to be that way.

I did tell the W that I have been in contact with OMW for about a month now. I though it did not bother her at first, but I hit the right buttons, and she became very angry at me.

She questioned how I could interfere in someone else's family, and I said the way you have been. I asked her if she thought it was okay for both of them to cheat on their families while they are still married.

I told W I felt bad for what the OMW is going through. She snickered and told me that it was the other way around. She said she heard from neighbors that it was bad for the OM. She said that these third parties back up his lies. I told her that the OMW had neighbors that felt differently. That she has not heard her both sides of the story. W was telling me that there are two sides to every other story, and I asked her if she had heard the OMW side, and she said "no"

She tried to blame me for the job for our problems and other things. She said that the A is the not the reason for our divorce. I told her she should have divorced first or worked on problems and not have an A. I told her that I may not have a job, but I have always loved her and the children and been here everyday for them, and I asked her when she is out late with the OM is she here for the kids. No response. I told her that there is no justification for cheating, and she can try to spin it anyway she wants. There was more, but I cannot remember.

She said she was taking a movie back, but was gone for over two hours. I told her before she left that she better hurry to go tell him.

She took a shower when she came home and said nothing to me. I am sure they are very worried and pissed

I told her I will do whatever it takes to protect my kids from the OM and that his wife needed to protect herself.

It felt so good to do this after last night. I was so glad to have it out in the open for once. It was a great feeling to me.

I have a lot to do tomorrow, but I feel ready to do it.