M&H - sorry about the OW, if she gave up on her marriage and moved closer to your H...that sucks. You will see what's up if you notice any changes in your H's behavior.
(((hugs)))
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO