I need some help please. My wife of 19 years told me today that she has feelings for one of our single divorced friends.He has been a friend of ours for about 5 years.Only becoming fairly close the last year. He is in a group of people that we hang around with.My wife is more of their friends than I am,but we still are all friends.I work alot so I am not there all of the time.I am almost 50 and she is 42 Our friend is 50 and I hate to say it but a really straight forward guy.I don't know what to do.Our marriage hasn't been to good for quiet some time now.Our sex life sucks mostly my fault and we are in dept out our butts.I really want to save this marriage because I really love my wife always have but got in a rut and have been very depressed for a while.I am working thru that and have been doing a lot better lately and do not want to lose her.I am willing to change what ever I can,but need some help.
