Arguing with her? Absolutely not. I validate her feelings. I do not try to reason with her. What I am saying are lines I can reply with when she tells me she is leaving rather than just saying "I only want you to be happy" cause right now to her happy is leaving me and living the fantasy of being with OM.
M: 27, W: 25 Together since: 01/31/00 M: 10/4/09 (8 Months) ILBNILWY: 01/24/10 EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted). Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10 Retrouvaille: 09/10/10