Awoken, I'm trying to find my way towards figuring out a coparenting R by reading this book, highly recommended by my L:

http://www.amazon.com/Helping-Your-Kids-Divorce-Sandcastles/dp/0679778012/ref=cm_cr_pr_product_top

So far it seems helpful.

(((hugs)))

me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp
.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.