Are people saying you shouldn't leave the house even for a night? What I got from reading most of your pages was "don't walk out" as in 'for a new apartment' or something. It seems to me that that wouldn't be expected at this point. And heck just say . . . "had a meeting last night, went long" . . . keep in mind I'm a cabinetmaker, not a relationship expert . . . just ask everyone here :^)
I'll have to go back over your thread IDU, I might be mixing some of the threads, I've read so many and feel for ya'll. Been there, so I know how it feels. Be strong, be cool. Rootin for ya man.
Life may be short, but . . . well . . . it actually IS short, now that I think about it . . . . particularly when compared to planetary formation and stuff.