I want to know the same. It had to been said either in person or over the phone back when they were talking over the phone. We may never know but the more I think about what has happened and way W's mentality I just cannot see her ever emotionally coming back to me.

I said this in another thread and will say it here. My W has the mentality of a 16 yo when it comes to relationships. She is not your typical WAW. Sometimes I feel like she wants to be told ILY ect... I could be very wrong but my W seems to be easy to persuade, at the same time she is not stupid. Also as my W has put it her heart is bleeding.

I need things to say to her, that will question her logic and cause her to reconsider.

M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10