Meeting with your h must have been difficult.Your h is in a bad place. I am sure there will be many more ups and downs like this. Remember to detach as much as you can.
As for the weekend. It sounds like your d can handle it so go and have a good time and call d as much as you want.
Also good job on the dude ranch. Yes do go and enjoy time with your d. You are right that you and d have to make a life for yourselves and get used to new routines.
