hm,
Originally Posted By: hoosiermama
and not to sound trite, but I will consider myself on the next level when I can meet my own needs without "needing" someone else. wanting is okay, needing not so much ok. and I'm pretty close.
God, not trite at all. I agree completely. Am learning to - and that I can and should - meet my own needs.
I'll be ready for another R when I'm convinced I don't need another R.

Though some "unmet needs" do require another person whistle

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac