Jeannine, Tell me more how you figured out what his LL were. I think one of my H's is just plain talking, and it's SO hard to come up with stuff to talk about for some reason! I truly don't know what to ask him/say to him. I know he does not talk to me like he does other people. How do I get him to open up? We need to talk about things other than our kids and work, but what?? Current events? I hate the news and never watch it so I'm not real good at that topic. I don't thave problems talking to other people either, but to him I'm clueless what to say! Rachael