Detach GAL SET YOUR GOALS - so important. I like to set some babystepgoals relating to H, and some long term goals (like he'll sleep in the same bed again) BUT you must also set personal goals, these being the most important.
I've attained many of my personal goals already, as most had to do with physical stuff (haircut, new perfume, etc) - it's good to have easy goals in the beginning so you feel like you've achieved something. Helps your PMA.
