Jeannine, Thanks for your list. It helps to see it printed out plain and simple (HARD TO DO!) and it's things I know I MUST do in order to save my M. I know there are no guarantees, but he"s hung around this long, I'm hoping he'll not give up now. You are getting FINALLY what you've longed for and that's great! I can only imagine my H doing those things right now. I've got my work cut out for me. I started last night with my full DBing armour on, and will keep the lips zipped when in doubt. The first order of business is getting him to not feel tense around me. Being able to talk to me is also a biggie. It may sound funny, but there are alot of times I just don't know what to say to him. He takes that as us not being able to talk. Where can I find things to talk about?? Did you ever have this problem? I guess I have to learn the gift of gab huh? Rachael
