Thanks Twink & SA I don't trust him at all right now
Just had a talk with daughter, she said that yes she did call WH to ask if she can stay with him, she told him "Daddy OW can stay in a hotel" LOL, he of course said that she can't and that D can only stay one night...shows you his priorities. D also said that he told her that he wouldn't bring OW around the house. D said "good I don't want to see her".
Anyway, I had really good, mature discussion with D. Told her that I don't feel comfortable with WH coming & going and I would be very nervous to leave her alone and maybe I should stay home. She said, "Mommy, you know me, I wouldn't do anything stupid, I'm almost 17, I can take care of myself for 2 days". I said that I know and that I trust her but I worry too much. She said "You can call me and text me all the time and we can see each other on Skype". She is right. When I was her age I was already away from home in college...having my own place with bunch of other girls...I was much more independent then she is now. Maybe I should stop being a mother hen and let her do this....After all I can call her every 5 minutes LOL. And in the case of emergency there is always WH to call on...or my friends.
I'm actually considering it. It's just the two of us girls now and we have to learn how to do this on our own. She has been too protected by us, she needs to learn some independence. She definitely deserves my trust more then her dad right now.
M53 H54 D17 M33Y T38Y Bomb OW 09/09 OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10 WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10 Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO
