Just read Tbarts thread, and found a useful term:

W is expressing extreme pain and rejection, I think. But this is new, and is not the root cause of her asking for a D. Seems like she is looking for a new excuse everyday. If she is so set on a D, why doesn't she just cut me out of her life? Why is she moving back into this house (beyond the fact she needs a place to live)? Why did she indicate she would postpone filing for D from June to September? WTF?

I am terminally confused, I fear.


H 51, W 46
no kids
T 22 years
M 17 years
ILBNILWY 2/10
1st D talk 6/10
partial recovery
W files D 5/11
long distance separation 8/11
moving forward on D 10/11
legal separation complete 1/2012