Jeannine, Thanks so much for your support-I guess we've all been in bad spots (REALLY bad spots!)so everyone knows what it's like, and helps out when one of our own is in panic mode. Yesterday was a baddie. I'm not sure what H will do, but I have to tell you that I called him last night after I went out with my BF and he siad it would be nice if I went over there. I did, and we talked a bit-NO R TALKS! ABSOLUTELY no talk of OW. No pressure. H wanted to be intimate. WO. Unbeleiveable. It's always good, but this was GREAT! H told me he loved me twice. All this from a man that emailed me yesterday that he did not feel close to me AT ALL. I suppose this does not surprise you. From what I've read of your thread, you were very skeptical for a time. Tell me, what do you think what was the most important thing you did to turn things around? It sounds like there was OW. How long, and did he ever move out? We have a long way to go. You just don't feel that easy secure feeling in your M after you've been through this. This has been the hardest thing I've ever had to endure-I'm sure that's true for most of us. This BB is a life saver, nad I'm so grateful for people like you who take the time to help people like ME! Please fill me in on what turned things around for you, Rachael
