Totally confused. Used the MC session to tell her how I felt, to bring up the trust issue, emotional neglect and so on. She wanted to know my feelings.
Agreed with her that our marriage was dead, and we need to move on. She laid out in detail how she wants the D to go. Then why is she obsessing over my past mistakes, which she has known about for a while now? Her emotions are quite raw, to be sure. I am quite suspicious she is making a huge issue of it to justify her actions with EA/PA and wanting the D. I know I am not supposed to infer what she is feeling, but how do I respond to these gut-wrenching emails? Ignore them? Thoughts would be most appreciated.
H 51, W 46 no kids T 22 years M 17 years ILBNILWY 2/10 1st D talk 6/10 partial recovery W files D 5/11 long distance separation 8/11 moving forward on D 10/11 legal separation complete 1/2012