One life / But we're not the same

[MichelleLT]

Yeah, I would too. Especially practicing ones. It's a long stretch to go from not having alcohol, caffeine, smoking, etc. (I guess the theory is about keeping the body pure) to full-on breaking a commandment by committing adultery with another married Mormon.

I mean, he sounds pretty MLC (especially since I've known him for like 4 yrs and was utterly shocked to hear about all this (and see his pics on facebook LOL)). But I was shocked even more by the fact that his OW is also Mormon. *Shakes head*

Ah well. I'm certainly going to give her any resources I can, and she's already going to counseling both through her ward (I guess that's the smallest unit of their church organization, and above that is a stake) and a MC. OH! Which reminds me! She actually got him into MC for a while, but he was covering up the PA and lying to the C about his drinking and such, so when my girlfriend brought proof in, the MC told him that she wouldn't see them anymore because C is based on openness and trust and he obviously didn't want to do the work. LOL.

Anywho, yeah, I definitely won't be going out to Monterey or SF bay as the great white breeding grounds are out there. I think we'll keep making the 4-5 hr drive down to the central coast where it's a lil warmer and the sharks are of the tiger variety LOL.