I went and spoke to an attorney today. he pulled up the file and she isn't asking for anything other than joint custody and child support, so no surprises.
He's inexpensive as long as we keep this uncontested which I believe we can if we go through with this.
Last night we were talking about custody options. I had asked about selling the house sometime during our conversation. She said no because what if two months from now we decide to get back together? If that happens we need our home for all of us to live in. When I asked about the 2 months, she said it was just a number she threw out. It could be less, it could be more.
I can't wait until we physically S again, because I'm tired of talking about this. Once we S, she will get her time and space she's been asking for. This will give me a chance to GAL, and for her to decide what she wants to do.
She said if should decide to date or have sex with someone else to please not tell her. I'm not sure where that came from, but I let her know my plan was to wait until we have made a decision before that would occur.
Married 18 Me 39 W 37 D 15 D 5 Divorce Filed 8 April 2010 Beginning of Reconcile 8 Sept