Thank you glamgirl, lalxx & SA - I know that I didn't do very well today....It's so hard when I'm in business with him, I have no choice but to deal with him, there is no one I can use as a go between....

After a day like today I don't even want to see him or talk to him...I wish that I had that choice....

I have another dilemma...I'm supposed to go away for the weekend to see our family friends. My D was supposed to go away with a friend and her family...that just got canceled...I asked WH if she can stay with him but no OW is coming.

D doesn't want to go with me, "it would be boring". I told her that she must, there is no other choice. So she talked to my H telling him that she doesn't want to go. He just called me and said that she can stay with him Friday night and that she can be at home alone for the following two nights and that he will supervise.

I told him that I don't want him here while OW is around. He said that he won't bring OW in, that I should be reasonable and don't object to this to get back at him (What?) and not to force D to come with me. She is 16 she can be at the house by herself with his supervision.

Am I being unreasonable? Do I just go and leave my D here with him coming and going as he pleases, who knows if I can trust him about OW not coming here. If I go I'll be worried about D being alone & about H being in my house with OW. I can also force D to go with me and have a miserable weekend with a grouchy teenager or should I just stay home. Grrrrr

Last edited by Mila; 05/18/10 11:16 PM.
M53 H54 D17
M33Y T38Y
Bomb OW 09/09
OUT 10/09 BACK 11/09 OUT 01/10
WANTS TO R 04/10 BACK with OW 05/10
Wants to Reconcile 05/11 I said NO