I need to start acting as if the man I love is dead and gone.
FTR I came to the same point. I had to realize that my old M was dead. My W or the women that I married was no longer the same. Having said this, it does not mean that a new M can be formed. First the old one must die.
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I can't sit around wondering if he's ever going to come to his senses.
No you can't it is why you focus on YOU. You GAL. You move forward. Maybe just maybe he may join you in the future. The key is to really focus on you and to address the things about you that you want to change.
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I might still miss him, I might still love him, but I'm not waiting for him to come back before I make our life great again.
Feel it. Go thru it. Learn from it. Yes - your life will be great again cause YOU control it!
BTW I need some landscaping as well
Keep your head up.
God Bless, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
If someone I loved had died, I wouldn't be sitting around wondering when their spirit might make contact with me. I would have to have faith that they loved me, even if they didn't have the chance to say it at the end. I would know that I loved them, and probably always will, but I wouldn't sit around waiting for some sign from the great beyond that they still loved me, too.
If someone I loved had died, I wouldn't be sitting around wondering when their spirit might make contact with me. I would have to have faith that they loved me, even if they didn't have the chance to say it at the end. I would know that I loved them, and probably always will, but I wouldn't sit around waiting for some sign from the great beyond that they still loved me, too.
wow. this should be the LBS motto.
I like this ^^^ too Shelbel
My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am
If someone I loved had died, I wouldn't be sitting around wondering when their spirit might make contact with me. I would have to have faith that they loved me, even if they didn't have the chance to say it at the end. I would know that I loved them, and probably always will, but I wouldn't sit around waiting for some sign from the great beyond that they still loved me, too.
This resonates with me too, Shelbel. This is what Faith is all about.
