As far as a need to re-connect.... She has an emotional barriar still up as she explains it. her breakup with other man is very new and I see it taking some time for that to die off. She is committed to me, and we will make this work. We get along good, we flirt, talk openly and are glad to be back together. if anyone asks we "are working on it" end of story. We are no longer going to discuss our relationship with anyone else. I am going to sign us up for marriage fitness and we are planning on doing alot more fun things/ alone time together. I guess the hardest part now is re adjusting to having 3 young kids all the time.... at the end of the day we are wore out and have little to give to each other. However, we are working as a team and it feels good to just have each other's back.
