I don't know if it's the emotional strain of doing it (W suffers from some depression and usually shuts down when it comes to bills, housework etc) or if it's the stigma of "becoming divorced" or maybe if I do the work then it looks like it was my idea? I don't know.
Either way I am going to take advantage of any extra time it buys me.
W says she is done and has nothing left for me by I really think that is just her pain and skepticism talking. Actions not words will help me find out I guess.
Thanks for everyone continued help and support. Keep it coming please! I know I'm not out of the woods yet.