One life / But we're not the same

[MichelleLT]

Ugh. So, I found out that a couple I am pretty good friends with are having huge issues. He is having a PA (with a woman 8 yrs older who is unemployed and living off (and still living with) her husband) and moved out (living with a guy who used to be a mutual friend but who is taking her H's side in all this now and no longer speaking to her), leaving her with their 3 yr old boy.

She thought I knew from him and was avoiding talking to her. Yeah, right! I set her straight on that and we spent almost 7 hrs on Sunday talking, she also called me last night. I loaned her my copy of DR and sent her MWD's blog on the LRT.

It's so sad to see this happening to them! They've been together 12 yrs, have the most beautiful sweet kid, and always seemed to be so supportive and respectful of each other, and happy!

The best part is, they are Mormon. As is the girl her H is having a PA with (in entertaining news, my girlfriend told OW's bishop and got her into trouble - OW will probably lose her temple privileges).

Oh. And he tried to set the date of separation at 4 days before their 10 year anniversary. He claims it wasn't planned, yeah right. (Cali has the long-term marriage set at 10 years)

All I can say is, this not only brings up a ton of bad memories, but man oh man does it make me never want to get M again! LOL.