My h is trying to make his mothers house like ours at much as possible. which i like because he probably misses our house it is nicer than hers. he had a deck put on and put bay windows in the sun room like our house. We have an in ground pool though and she doesn't. I read when they change there living situation it is good sign because it shows they are not content. They are in a counterfeit relationship and they won't find happiness. His mother is paying for everything just to make h happy and keep him living with her, she is so sick. H father was very frugal, he died in oct. and now h and his mother are blowing the life savings.
