Looking for help with WAW

[mza8]

Gr8, I'm not sure if NC is working or not? She is contacting me more. Don't know if that means anything?

GM, I don't think the house is holding her back from getting her own place. The reason I think this is because I worked out an agreement with our bank that we don't need to make monthly mortgage payments while we are selling the house. So right now it's not like she needs the money from the house mortgage to pay for an apartment. She definitely has the money to get her own apartment at any time.

Yes, I suppose I could ask her the more general question. I'm not sure if I should even reply to this email but I feel that I should. I need to think about this a bit more. If I do respond I was thinking about not totally dismissing her idea to remove the tree. I was thinking about telling her that let's wait a bit longer and see what happens. If we get a lot more commments about the backyard then we can consider removing the tree. I was also thinking about asking her some of her other ideas for the landscaping. This way I have not dismissed her idea and asked her for her other ideas for the yard. I'm thinking this might make her feel like I do care about her ideas...which I do.

Sandi, if you have some time I would really like to hear what you think about my last couple of posts.