Hello Heinrich, just read your stitch and I am so sorry you are here. Your story is so similar to mine it is scarey. My D should be finalised sometime this week.
I got an email today from my H stating the OW is in fact his partner and that he is moving in with her. After asking about this OW for about 1 year now and he has said she is only a friend, now all my suspiscions are true. To say I am devastated is an understatment.
Like you I still love my H and havent always showed it. I have said some horrible things, and have tried to be nice, mean and also go dark. None of it was going to work even though we both tried.
I do like your statistics though and like you will hang onto them and hope maybe one day I can have my family back.
Me 37 years young!! S11 S7 T22 M14 D final 13.05.2010 Today is the first day of the rest of my life!!! First post: D Day has arrived