"It sure didn't feel like "good stuff" when it was happening. I was so upset to hear him say that I wasn't giving effort!"
If I told you I thought you were ugly.. would you believe me? You are posting here.. making every effort to try and salvage what you have. You are going to C.. with him. You have not told his sorry ass that if he wants out.. he needs to go. Don't you dare let him tell untruths!! Just because he is your H does not give him the right to make up crap! Be firm with situations like that.. FIRM.. not angry!
I am Sorry that you feel that way H. I truly think we have a chance and I am putting forth my best effort. If I am not meeting your expectations.. please let me know where I am slacking.
Never point a finger at someone with your words. Well unless you are me.
"What kind of thing could be clicked on to allow tracking?"
It would be obvious.. it has to be. A lot of people that work at big companies have to click a OK button after they log in that says they will be subject to monitoring. It would have to be plain sight legal-ese. Again.. DB.com is more "public" and not subject to those rules but again.. they would have to get a subpoena to figure out if it was really you that was posting.. track your ip.. so on and so on. Again.. as long as you operate within the rules of DB.com you will be fine. Most of us here are smart enough to figure out if it is not you posting. He could delete the account.. maybe. But that would require a call to the DB office. Heck.. who knows.. maybe he would read and start posting! That would be something new and exciting for me!
A boy can dream!
"This is pure gold! I am going to remember this forever"
Thanks.. I appreciate that.
Relax Eat Think Act normal React.. Smartly. Do something different. Emulate. Do Work.