Look at what this man is doing to someone's home... children live here... If I did that to someone's home you would DESPISE me for it.. But HE is doing it to YOUR CHILDREN and YOUR HOME... and you LOVE him for it?
If you care about your home and family here then PROTECT them like I AM and tell him to GO AWAY... He's not a MAN, he's a PREDATOR and TRESPASSING in OUR HOME and THREATENING YOUR FAMILY.. ACT like a MOTHER and SEND HIM AWAY!!!
I feel like I am making great headway now even though my wife is still being very negative with me and constantly bringing up the past that she can't get over (before OM came along - About how I was controlling, critical of her, and didn't seem to really love her even though I did.)
She says she is waiting for her next paycheck and then she will get an apartment. All the trouble I had trying to get her to leave, and now that the OM is out of the picture, she wants to leave on her own. Go figure!
But if she does leave, I know that I have to just let her go and go into NC mode. I'm planning to review the DB book this evening for how to act now that I seem to be entering a new phase of this situation.
My wife is asking for a divorce and I don't completely understand why.
