MLC - standing by my man

[lalxx]

Mila,
I am so very sad to hear things didn't work out for you as you had planned. This MLC sucks most of the time doesn't it.

I really hope you can see this for what it was - a child wearing a suit and trying to behave in a grown up world and being completely overwhelmed by it - think Tom Hanks in BIG! Unfortunately i am of the age to remember him before Forest Gump.....

Your husband is in crisis - you saw that from how he looked - maybe next time you see the warning signs you'll park the meeting and have somewhere else to go. He needs lots of time to work everything through. he is in his tunnel and is word perfect on the MLC script - I don't want to be glib but he is.

You need to have a nice drink of fresh, cold water, dust yourself down and resolve not to walk into the firing line again.

Your business arrangements are going to be hard and navigating the waters in the future will be tough. Do you have a 3rd party director within your business who can be a balancing force when you discuss business related issues (just thinking aloud here) or maybe a trusted accountant or business coach? Set up regular meetings which are very tightly timebound with minutes/action notes circulated?

I am thinking of you and I knwo you have the answers within you - please be kind to yourself and remember tomorrow is another day and you have the chance to put into practice what you learned today.

((hugs))

lalxx