MLC - standing by my man

[glamgirl]

Mila so sorry to hear about your encounter with your h, but are you really expecting it to be different. First of all you have to have NO expectations and just flow. I always tell myself to just smile and knod when my h was off in another land. Just smile and knod. I know doesn't sound like you can accomplish anything then, but step back and ask yourself does that need an answer or resolve at the moment.

This is not about you remember that. Your h is confused and off in a la la land. He can't make decisions and feels like you guilt him every step of the way. It's part of the MLC program. Best advice is to let it roll and not respond at that moment.

You need to decide to be h's friend through the crisis or back off and have nothing to do with him. It is a very difficult decision. Only you can decide. If you be his friend you can't let anything bother you that he says and not allow any confrontation. He will see that as that is exactly why I needed to leave her.

It's so sad that these MLC's are so confused and hurtful. He can't see that right now Mila. If he can see it, he won't admit it or want to acknowledge it.

Keep focusing on you! It will be the only way to get through this.