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Re: help with a plan
idontunderstand #2005527 05/18/10 08:19 PM
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AWESOME

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Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
Current Status: In counseling
Re: help with a plan
Barkley #2005530 05/18/10 08:22 PM
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Originally Posted By: Barkley
AWESOME


What I meant by this is "kick their asses"

M: 39
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Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
Current Status: In counseling
Re: help with a plan
Barkley #2005531 05/18/10 08:24 PM
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My, God.

I wish I would have listened sooner.

We all have to do it on our own.

"It can't happen to us."

Yes in can and it does.

Past time for me to stand up for myself and my family.

Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

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Re: help with a plan
idontunderstand #2005532 05/18/10 08:26 PM
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Originally Posted By: idontunderstand
My, God.

I wish I would have listened sooner.

We all have to do it on our own.

"It can't happen to us."

Yes in can and it does.

Past time for me to stand up for myself and my family.


idontunderstandwhy,

What time is it? All you?
Re: help with a plan
idontunderstand #2005533 05/18/10 08:28 PM
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Quote:
time for me to stand up for myself and my family.


Do it with strength and honor. Your kids are watching you.

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Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Re: help with a plan
Barkley #2005535 05/18/10 08:29 PM
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My, God.

I wish I would have listened sooner.

We all have to do it on our own.

"It can't happen to us."

Yes in can and it does.

Past time for me to stand up for myself and my family.

Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1933641#Post1933641
Re: help with a plan
idontunderstand #2005538 05/18/10 08:34 PM
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Good for you!

M: 39
W: 39
Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
Current Status: In counseling
Re: help with a plan
Barkley #2005548 05/18/10 08:48 PM
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I know I need to calm down, but what does anyone think about going home tonight, making sure the kids are in bed and asleep and telling her I cannot stay here tonight.?

I know the answer, but I can't stand the thought of being in the same house with her right now. She has to work tomorrow at 4:00 am and would have to call in sick.

I know, I know.......

Just wishing outloud.

Me-43
W-36
TS-10
D-7
S-4
M-11
Rings off-8/16/2010

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1933641#Post1933641
Re: help with a plan
idontunderstand #2005551 05/18/10 08:52 PM
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Stay Home!

M: 39
W: 39
Kids (3): S10; S8; D4
Married 14 years
Togethor: 18 years
Wife's Weird Behavior Started: 2nd Half of 2009
Bomb Dropped (about being "so done"): 2/17/10
Current Status: In counseling
Re: help with a plan
idontunderstand #2005556 05/18/10 09:03 PM
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Originally Posted By: idontunderstand
I know I need to calm down, but what does anyone think about going home tonight, making sure the kids are in bed and asleep and telling her I cannot stay here tonight.?

I know the answer, but I can't stand the thought of being in the same house with her right now. She has to work tomorrow at 4:00 am and would have to call in sick.

I know, I know.......

Just wishing outloud.


What were the main points you should have been listening to?
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