Wifey gone wild?

[Rob1231]

Hi Wifey, Long time no see! I'm glad that YOU are getting out and doing good stuff for yourself, even if H is his same old crummy self. A couple of thoughts ran through my head as I read the stuff above:

H loves me but says our collective experiences have made us 2 independent people and I should focus on what we have rather than what we don't.

It's a shame that H doesn't get it - 2 independent people is the BEST formula for a happy relationship. Think about it - the alternative is two dependent people... The trick is, being a HAPPY independent person in a relationship. I think you could master that trick. H, not so much.

One need look no further for evidence of this than all of the dozens, hundreds, THOUSANDS of LBSs here and the great lengths we are suddenly willing to go once our spouses drop the "ILYBINILWN" bomb on us.

Puppy's words really made a bell go off in my head - because when I hear YOU talk about H, the message I hear is "I love him but I am not in love with him." Maybe it's time for you to drop a bomb of your own, hon. Just how long are you willing to live like this?

(((hugs)))