I just finished reading all 39 pages regarding your situation. I don't know you but am "proud" of you for hanging in there taking care of the kids (who should always come first) and doing everything you can to save the marriage. At the end of the day, no matter what happens, you will have a clear conscience and be able to say that you did EVERYTHING you could.
Thanks for taking the time and for the compliment. The kids DO come first. It's still difficult to think how this will affect them if it all comes down to D.
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Keep doing what you are doing and trust in God.
God and my kids are the only thing that keeps me going.
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I have only been in my situation for 3 months now and have gone from confused to devastated to angry to numb. I have begun detaching from my alien and have decided to improve as a husband and father for myself. The spoiled teenage girl can either stay or go.....
Sorry to find you here at all. As you know, detachment is the key. It took me until a week ago that I was able to finally understand what it was all about and finally do it. The new info just reinforced everything for me.
We all can use some improvement somewhere in our lives. In the end, everyone is right, this is about us, not them or even our M, only us.
Good luck to you. I will check back with you soon.
