the only thing i need to contact him about is to reimburse me for my dental work. i went to the dentist the other day. bill was $220. i paid with my credit card and the insurance company will reimburse h because it's his dental plan. i haven't asked for the money back yet. but i don't want the reason for me to see him is to get money. this also doesn't have to be done face to face. he'd just leave it with security and have me pick it up.
other than that. we are leading separate lives. he's made no effort to contact me. and i've made no effort to contact him. heck, i don't even acknowledge him when he says hello.