To answer your question, yes I did get a vibe. We had dated, briefly, years ago. She tried to keep in touch and I just let it go because I have enough friends and wanted to date, not be just friends. She admitted to saying to herself over the years, I wish I would have given IDU more of a chance, she thought about me often and other such things. With that said, there was no talk about us, we were bouncing things off of each other trying to save our respective M's.
The intel I rec's wasn't from her. It was actually from a family member of the W. I won't reveal to her who told me what, I do know better. I won't even tell her exactly what was told to me. It was enough to make me realize, once and for all, until she owns up to this and agrees to no contact, I AM DONE. With no regrets, I have tried all that I know how. Made many mistakes, but tried.
