I'd play what ya'll did pretty close to the vest, let her see how it feels. After "we talked" I wouldn't give her one tiny bit of information. I wouldn't even say "We talked that's all" When I say "let her see how it feels" I don't mean just to be spiteful, I mean so she can maybe get a little perspective.
One question, and you don't have to answer at all as far as I'm concerned . . . . did you get a 'sexual vibe' from your friend? Be careful! "Two wrongs don't make a right: . . . to sound a little like my grandmother.
Life may be short, but . . . well . . . it actually IS short, now that I think about it . . . . particularly when compared to planetary formation and stuff.
