CLV, I think time and GAL'ing are the things that are helping the most. Although I can still get pretty emotional when I think about things, those emotions are slowly fading with time. I have been hanging out with a group of people the past couple of months and that has really helped. I met a woman who just went through a divorce and we have been texting, hanging out, talking, etc. and just having fun. Nothing romantic going on. Being with this group of people is really starting to make me feel human again, and not just some lost soul.
I would do whatever you can to get out and meet some people...