He smiled and nodded. Then he asked H if he ever "pursues" me to request we keep talking, or bring it back up later after I have had time to think. H said (truthfully) "no". I have stopped following him around the house to try to talk. I guess I thought that was a big change. MC is right in that the huge change would be H following me around the house to talk! The exchange was as I typed it. It sure didn't feel like "good stuff" when it was happening. I was so upset to hear him say that I wasn't giving effort! This whole thing is so hard.
Ooooh, I like that response. It is honest and not just about the kids. I will use that, or something very close.
What kind of thing could be clicked on to allow tracking?
