Show him you are MOVING ON and change your behavior. Be mysterious. Get all dolled up and GO OUT. Spend the night at a friends house. ACT AS IF you are getting your needs met by someone else.
TEST THINGS. Then DO WHAT WORKS.
Yep, love this. Acting AS IF has made a big difference in my PMA. But just be careful to not play head games or do this just to try to make him jealous ... this is about you and feeling good for yourself.
Also ... not sure if you considered it or not, but your kids have gotten older and I'm assuming are in school ... what about a part time job? Your own money could go a long way to helping you feel more independant and strong ...
Holding onto anger to punish someone else, is like lighting yourself on fire to get smoke in their eyes ~ 25yearsmlc
