I strongly recommend reading the boundary thread. Then set some boundaries:

I have not followed your sitch, but from this post, something similar to this:

"I understand that you are still uncertain of what you want. When you do not treat me like a wife, I feel disrespected. If you continue this behavior, I will start considering all my options, including D."

or

Show him you are MOVING ON and change your behavior. Be mysterious. Get all dolled up and GO OUT. Spend the night at a friends house. ACT AS IF you are getting your needs met by someone else.

TEST THINGS. Then DO WHAT WORKS.


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712