Wow, are you my husband? I hope not, because it is very ugly to read these stuff legitimised over a man's point of view just twice.
Sir, my husband had already made a police report times ago and after he left the police station he seduced me at home, consoled my mother over the phone and also, made a "great effort" to colorize the relationship. I felt super used and abused when I learned that. He had already seen a divorce lawyer and when he made the calculus, he figured out divorce was expensive and thus made the scenario you are reading, eventually upside down, upstairs. He made it up all.
I understand your anger and your point of view, but is that right just because you think likewise? That is my question? Or is that a man's ego talking from the man's world?
And yes, they had two children and that doesn't console me at all.
I do appreciate, however, your point of view. Would you tell me more on how this will end up, since now I am on the side of the law and he, admittedly, had thought he did it right using the law? Or, more, would you tell me how it would have this to end?