I am letting her process the MC session yesterday, and we shall see what she has to say. I am going to let her contact me.
Sounds like an excellent plan. That reminds me of Glimmerman's advice, back a few pages. Let her process - that's what she needs to do right now.
Originally Posted By: any chance?
I was interesting that she commented on my change in attitude yesterday, clearly suspicious that change is even possible. My biggest concern is that she has conjoured me into a controlling monster in our relationship, which was never really true. I don't know how to fight that impression, especially when we are separated.
I think the best way to 'fight' it, is to just continue the positive changes for yourself, living strong and centered, taking care of yourself and GAL. It's obviously got her attention! And whether she decides to continue with the D or not, it will make your life a better, happier one. You deserve it AC!!
I cannot complain for not receiving from others, that which I've never asked them for.
